Are you one of those people who might be afraid to get Un-Stuck?
Are you standing on the edge of a precipice to change when you start rolling out the excuses as to why you can’t take the first step in changing your life?
I see it a lot, actually. Let’s see if we can’t break it down a bit.
First, you have to come to the realization that what you’re currently doing isn’t working.
You can usually tell… some signs are feeling miserable, upset, stuck, blocked or feeling as if your life isn’t going in the direction that you want.
Second, you have to realize that you need to do something about it! Sounds simple, right?
Not so much. How many of you decide you want to make a change and then roll out the MONEY and TIME excuse?
- “I just don’t have the time”
- “I can’t afford it.”
- “I’d rather use the money on a shopping spree.”
- “I have things I want to fix around my house.”
There are a couple of things here at play.
- FEAR and LACK or the “I don’t have the money.”
This one is a toughie because you’ve already en-grained in the mind that this is how it is and how it will be. Once that is set in place it’s like putting blinders on a horse because that’s all your see.
Instead of seeing “HOW” you can afford something you go straight into the vibrations of Fear and Lack and thus do not allow the Universe to SHOW you HOW you CAN afford it.
Nor, does it allow the Universe to bring you the Resources. So, when you’re faced with these vibrations try asking “How can I afford this?” and allow the universe to show you.
- Next, we come across the vibrations of Self Worth and Self Value.
Somewhere in the mind chatter you have decided that your health and well-being weren’t thing worth investing in… and sometimes it will actually go into the thought process of “I’d rather use the money on a new high-end Coach handbag, vacation with my girlfriends etc…”
I actually had a potential client tell me she ‘didn’t have the money’ to work with me and then 3 months later saw her photos on Facebook of her trip to cancun with her girlfriends. #truestory.
Could she afford to work with me? YES. Did she find getting herself unstuck of worth or value to her at that time? Nope.
Don’t get me wrong… I’m quite fond of vacations and Coach handbags, myself, but that brand new handbag or vacation is only going to alter your reality for a little while – then the same old – same old sets in.
- How about the “I’m too busy” person?
Are you constantly running around with tons of things to do and just can’t seem to fit one more thing into your schedule?
Let me re-frame it for you so you can see what it actually looks like. “I’m too busy to help myself” “or “I’d rather stay Stuck because I don’t have time help myself” or “I don’t really want to look at my issues that closely because that would then force me to change them.”
eek… did your heart just drop a little?
Mine did just as I wrote it. This is about making your health and well-being a priority which plays into Self-Worth and Value mixed in with a little fear.
- Lastly, are the vibrations of Personal Responsibility and Commitment to Self.
This is all about owning where you are and the choices you’ve made. Realistically, it’s your decision to stay Stuck or Free yourself.
Only YOU can take responsibility for changing your life… no one can do it for you.
So ask yourself:
- What is it costing me to stay stuck right now?
- Do I like being where I am right now?
- Do I really want to change?
- Am I worth investing in?
- Can I commit to helping myself?
- How is being Stuck working for me right now?
You see ALL THESE THINGS are costing you. They’re costing you Money, Mental and Emotional duress, Relationships, your health, and your well-being.
Make sure you take ALL OF THAT into account the next time you decide that – you’re not worth it, don’t have the money or you’re too busy to get unstuck – because all of these are affected when your under stress.
To stay Stuck or get Un-Stuck…. The Choice is yours but if you want our help – we’d be happy to assist you.
Elizabeth Pfeiffer 